Don't get mad, get even. Just wait till you are a member and let Phil have it then...
Oi!
Anyone who asks, gets in - so long as they're in (wider) Europe of course, or maybe EMEA these days.
Anyone who forgets to send a choice of username gets asked to send one by return of email, or as near as I can manage.
Anyone who doesn't reply to the request to choose a username gets ignored. Once upon a time I used to chase people up, but - well, life's too short.
I've also just run a scan of our server-side spam bucket - and unless whoever-it-is also tried to sell me prescription drugs, I can't find anything in there that shouldn't be.
So - who are you?