When I first got into coffee properly this Spring (after a dozen years of a Krups, Illy or supermarket beans and a blade grinder - and remaining blissfully ignorant!) I immersed myself in the mountain of knowledge on the web but also looked at the trends on coffee forums in relation to other hobbies. Thankfully, forums seem remarkably free of flaming or put downs, damned friendly in general and fun to catch up with other folk and see or show coffee in action.
One thing I looked for straight away was whether it all suffered from the photography or audio syndromes (as two typical analogies) of attention on the hardware rather than the actual pursuit behind what should be just toolsets. I told myself that I would know I was truly into coffee when I posted on the beans, roasting or ad-hoc sections either more often or more meaningfully than on the equipment sections. Slightly grey area on TMC as many technique issues get posted under "espresso".
Anyway, when anyone visits for a coffee I could hide behind the chrome of the Macap and Pavoni and smile cheesily but I don't. I actually like to start at the beginning by showing some green beans and roasting straight away. Rather than me rabbit on about the hardware they see raw coffee, see it roasted, learn the 2 to 10 day guideline (or whatever variation you follow), see fresh-roasted coffees ready to roast and appreciate some differences and of course try some. The kit becomes toolsets as it should.
My parents were round earlier today for the first time in a few months and I followed the usual routine, except I was a bit naughty as I held a bowl of green beans over the cup and asked "one spoon or two?" It completely caught out My Mother who did not have the faintest idea what coffee actually looked like before Nescafé et al get hold of it and she tried to see whether this was a strong one or not so that she could give me an answer. It was cruel but amusing though.
Half an hour later another person had received the guided tour of bean, roast, rest, grind, tamp, brew, froth etc. that took me 6 months to appreciate. Plus of course being in fear of this large amount of coffee (remember when a filter basked seemed a hell of a lot of coffee and must surely blow your head off?) only to find it strong and yet smooth and not bitter or overpowering.
What kind of amusing incidents have you had happen along your coffee journey or what do you do for those who would not have the weeks/months/years of patience you have put in and yet will appreciate the end result?